are friendships like relationships?
I feel that hanging out with the guys ain't as fun as it use to be... Things just seem so boring and stagnant.
Its either hanging out at holland village or going to town for an arcade game.
Most guys when they get sick of a girl, they would break up with a girl and go for new one...
I think in friendship there isn't a real break-up but a sort of seperation... and seperation that is good for the 2 friends...
Recently i met up with a friend whom i've not met for over 2 years... he was my childhood buddy... han tiong...
When we met up, we just sat down and talked... really had a great time with him... doing catching up and wonder how he has been...
Its like when we met up, the passion for each other lives just sparked and it was so enjoyable to hang out with him.
We spent days and nights doing stuff together when we were younger... when i quarrel with my mother, i would go to his house... Han Tiong would stay over at my house and we would play and talk cock... eating indian rojak and hor fun... order pizzas was a treat from my mom...
Han Tiong than left to stay with his mom... on the other side of singapore... didn't see him for a while... didn't catch up... he went on to do his own stuff... i went on to do my own stuff...
But when we met up, it was just magic... i missed the times i spent with him and i was about to tear...
We never really "broke-up" our friendship... it just stood still... and time allowed it to simmer and boil a bit... making the reunion a greater-sweeter one...
I guess that my current bunch of friends... i feel it should stand still also... let it boil a bit... let it absorb the flavours of life... and when we met up again, we would have lots to talk about and catch up on...
In the mean time, i feel that my bunch of friends and i would need new friends...
Its never really a break-up.... just a seperation...
a seperation to allow the friendship to boil and absorb the flavours in life...
that we may enjoy each other's company more...
posted by Pangster @ 2:04 am
2 Comments:
Believe me, even if i didn't leave my dad to go over to my mum's place, our friendship would still be sweet. I have not found another friend like you. You are like number one in my world of friends. (not that i acutally rank my friends, lol) But yea, this is how much you mean to me. Apart from Kok Boon, you're the other best friend, only best friends, i believe that i'll have in this life. Even though we spend little time together, you hold a more important place than almost ALL of my friends. really, i thank God for you, because if there's anything that made my teenage years a good time, it was you. come on the 29th if you have the time. if not, i'd not be working from next Tuesday onwards, maybe we can meet up for something? Pool, movie, whatever. For now, take care! =)
you will always be my fren lah fatty ! muacks ! hahaha
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